News

Ga. Gay Man Gets Hate Note, Then Bedroom Burns Down

by Steve Weinstein
EDGE Contributor
Monday Jan 24, 2011
  • PRINT
  • COMMENTS (3)
  • LARGE
  • MEDIUM
  • SMALL
Staples’ home may not have burned this badly, but it was heavily damaged.
Staples’ home may not have burned this badly, but it was heavily damaged.   

Carroll County is a semi-rural county that is near enough to Atlanta for parts of it to be included in some aggregations of the huge city’s extended area. But the northwestern county still retains much of the character of the rural South -- including prejudice against anyone who’s different.

Someone apparently believed that that included Chris Staples. The Carroll County resident received a message delivered in the most brutish way possible: a note attached to a rock thrown the window of his home, a converted pool house on the grounds of his family’s estate. The note was, he told WSBTV, covered with crude anti-gay remarks -- "some of the meanest, hateful words that could come out of a person’s mouth," was how his mother described it.

Then, later on that Sunday, Jan. 23, the "Lord’s Day" in that part of the world, Staples awoke to flames engulfing his bedroom. WSBTV reports that officials are considering it arson.

"We are just lost," Staples’ mother, Wanda Morris, told a reporters. When she heard a commotion, she ran into the yard and found her son. She thought he was dead.

Staples’ mother said he had been out of the closet for 20 years, is so sick he’s unable to leave the house and has no enemies that she knows of. One news report lists his age as 40; another, 43.

Even the local police were sickened by the act. "This is the first time I’ve dealt with anything of this nature in 16 years," said Capt. Shane Taylor of the county sheriff’s office. "I can’t believe anyone would have such hatred in their heart as to do somebody like that, especially when they don’t even know him. They don’t know him," she said.

"We have lived here for 31 years and have never had any trouble," Morris said. "I mean, everyone knows him and he doesn’t bother a soul. I just don’t understand. He’s a good person and everyone who knows him calls him ’Brother.’

"He’s disabled and has been very sick. He hardly every leaves the house so I just don’t understand this kind of hate towards someone they obviously don’t even know. But the note read like someone just found out that Chris was gay and was the most hateful, sickening thing I have ever read. If the words weren’t enough, this? He could have been killed."

Steve Weinstein has been a regular correspondent for the International Herald Tribune, the Advocate, the Village Voice and Out. He has been covering the AIDS crisis since the early ’80s, when he began his career. He is the author of "The Q Guide to Fire Island" (Alyson, 2007).

Comments

  • Anonymous, 2011-01-24 06:33:37

    Arson, a property crime? It seems that this is attempted murder and should be taken more seriously.


  • frankie, 2011-01-24 12:25:16

    I agree that is an attempt on someones life


  • Anonymous, 2011-01-24 15:02:18

    That’s not suprising; I was BLOCKED & HARASSED by BUCKHEAD BASEBALL, when i; a law abiding GAY CROSSDRESSER, dared to exercise my right to exercise in a city of Atlanta public park by walking on the public sidewalk! I felt like LEO FRANK being surrounded by a all white middle aged lynch mob! When i told them it was that i would report them, the president of Buckhead Baseball (with his lawyer by his side) informed me "who would believe you? I’d be your word against ours". AND THEY DIDN’T EVEN KNOW A DAMN THING ABOUT ME! Atlanta city govt. still allows them to KICK OUT "UNDESIRABLES" & Coca-Cola is STILL a major sponsor of Buckhead Baseball. WTF???


Add New Comment

Comments on Facebook